Other Classes Lee Might be Offering
Lee is considering offering more than one class. Here is a list of the one's that might be available. Please message me here and let me know if you want to go to one or more of these and let's see if we have the numbers and interest to have more than one class.
Please tell us which you would like to see...and please do it soon because time is really short
Take My Breath Away- Breath and Air Flow Play (demo, hands on potential?)
Breath play is the black sheep of the BDSM family- but folks ARE doing it. Get real. Let’s discuss why and how folks are playing, then plunge into the styles that exist out there, from gas masks to choking, bagging to shared breath play, tantric breathing to nooses and more. This stuff makes us hot, so fess up- you are not alone. We will also touch on auto-erotic breath play, complicated breath play scenes, and health issues involved in breath play.
Switching Strategies: Fulfilling your Needs and more (lecture format class)
The term "switch" has a lot of baggage attached in a polar BDSM community, where you are expected to be a Top or a bottom, a Master or a slave- but there are a thousand reasons why many of us feel a calling to cross over from time to time- while others are born to ride both sides of their souls. We will be addressing why people switch (Tops who want to know what it feels like, slaves who want to serve masochistic Masters, greedy pigs who want it all), strategies to finding play partners or relationship structures (one partner many roles, play partners outside of monogamous relationships, polyamory, swinging, open relationships, self-play), and create ways to check in with ourselves about what our own needs are. When desires are left unfulfilled, it can lead to resentment, break downs in communication, and anger- but how do we find ways to fill our needs when we are ashamed of them, our partners are turned off by them, or we're just to shy to ask?
Beyond Bowed Heads: Rituals for Dominance and submission(lecture format class)
Rituals are a key part of any D/s relationship, whether we acknowledge them or not. From casual kisses as the door to formal slave poses, ritual objects such as collars to slave contracts, the BDSM world is rife with concepts of ritual- but what is a ritual? What are the levels of ritualistic interaction we have between one another? Let's look at rituals for day to day life (including how to get out of work or parent space), sacred time, intense connection, erotic play, solidifying relationships, changes within our relationships, and the taboo subject of the devastating loss of a relationship or its natural end. From terminology to developing your own code of ethical interaction, this class covers a bevy of styles and types of interpersonal reactions.
Getting to Hot: Safety, Communication and Negotiation (lecture format class)
Communication is all about safewords and health issues, right? Wrong! Let's get back to what communication is really about- making your relationships in and out of rope hot by getting into each other's heads and really learning to share our fantasies, fears, desires, and needs. Let's talk about getting our desires met, exploring our passions, how to share the scary things, how to not make your bottom feel like shit when they can't hold a bondage pose, sex, the mysterious creature known as aftercare (and what about pre-care?), intimacy, and so much more.
Sir! Yes Sir! : Exploring, Developing, Implementing and Enforcing Protocol (interactive lecture format class)
Everyone in the Dominant/submissive and Master/slave community seems to talk about protocol, but what is it exactly? Where does the line between "common sense" and "etiquette" stop, and protocol begin? We will look at what Protocol is in a D/s context, delve into terminology, and then examine formats of commonly recognized protocol systems and how these things develop in individual relationships and group dynamics. How does protocol change from public interactions to existing 24-7 in private dynamics? Once we have examined what protocol can be, we will look into how to further develop our chosen dynamics, implement them consistently, and then discuss the difference between enforcing protocol and punishment techniques. These concepts do NOT just apply to M/s and D/s dynamics- from active listening to self sabotage, this class will touch on communication and lifestyle skills for all types of relationships.
Punching, Kicking and Deep Bruising (demo, hands on potential)
Hands. Fists. Feet. Paddles. Saps. Foam Bats. Rubber Hoses… and more… Delve into ways to really leave a mark, dig into the meat of the matter, feet muscle under your fingertips or how to land blows in a safer manner. From basic anatomy lessons to blow-by-blow ideas of how to use this sort of play in your own scenes- let’s see if we can leave an impression.
Playing Between The Ears: Erotic Hypnosis, Trance and Dirty Talk(demo/lecture format class, with or without in depth demos)
Close your eyes and relax, or get yourself all wound up, it’s time to delve into the most powerful sex organ we have to play with- the brain! From formal induction hypnosis concepts to how to just use the perfect words to spice up your sex life, we will be discussing and exploring some practical skills on creating guided visualizations, intensifying role play, building command words, self-hypnosis, and much more. As well as the fun and flirty stuff, we will also look at the legal and ethical ramifications of these sorts of play, horror stories, and myths about trance states... and see what mysteries we can uncover between our ears.
Meeting Our Needs: Exploring "Alternative" Relationship Structures (lecture format class)
Modern romance dictates that a single individual should fulfill all of our needs- from sharing joys and fears, co-parenting and financial commitments to sexual happiness, identity confirmation and spiritual fulfillment. Is this fair? We will look into what relationships give us, then explore a wide variety of relationship structures that are being employed to have people fill all of their needs. Monogamy and serial monogamy are valid options, but what about polyamory, swinging, pre-arranged trysts, friends with benefits, and more? How do we communicate in our relationships to make whatever structure we choose actually work, and of course we'll plunge into issues like jealousy vs. envy, new relationship energy, and making each of our friends and partners feel like the unique person they are in our lives.
Taking the Lead: Pony, Puppy and Beast Owning/Training (discussion with hands-on)
The freedom of becoming something greater than human is a call for many- the desire to be a noble human equine, a happy puppy dog, an oily pig in a pen, a lazy cat that gets fed, petted and... but what about those of us who have to take care of these "Creatures"? How do we best see to their needs, help them truly live their fantasies out, create the perfect scenes and live for them- and still get what we want out of being human pet owners? We will discuss the psychology of human pets and pet owning, practicalities of dealing with bodily functions and the desire to fuck our "pets" without messing up their head space, shopping for our ponies and puppies, and then have some general play time to interact with the pets we may have brought with us today. This is a great class for folks who are just curious about being a human "creature" as well- get your whinnies heard by your owners!
Trotting Towards Happiness: Pony Training Techniques (discussion with hands-on)
So your human pony/horse has a name, and you've taken the reigns. Now what? We'll address a wide variety of training techniques and play opportunities for human ponies and their handlers, for ponies whose interests vary from being wild ponies being "broken" to show ponies that just need an excuse to show off. Concepts include blindfold training, high stepping, sound and body language, use of reigns, lunge lines, pony body stances and types of movement, helping your human pony move in and out of pony space, the debate of ponies and punishment, and so much more.
Safer Magical Sex and Erotic Energy Exchanges (lecture/discussion format class)
How do we protect ourselves energetically and physically during acts and explorations of using our bodies, will and desire? From masturbation to bdsm and all manifestations in-between, we will discuss how to use our erotic props (safer sex supplies, sex toys, fetish items and bdsm gear) for magical shielding, extensions of our astral body, and energetic empowerment. Join us as we discuss body fluids and prana, how to choose what parts of ourselves intermingle with our partners, dedication or cleansing/grounding of our erotic props, energy ethics, sacred spaces, and the why behind some of these interactions.
Inner Monsters (Tops): Delving Into the Darkness of Our Desires (lecture/discussion format class)
In a world where dark fantasy has been sanitized into “Safe, Sane and Consensual,” how do we address the truths of some of our more terrifying and terrible erotic desires? How do we look at ourselves in the mirror after we have taken our partner apart in the bedroom and left them broken and battered? What do we do when our partners comes to us with their own demons to be exorcised in the bedroom or dungeon, and those things scare us or turn us on and we are unsure if that makes us bad people. In this closed-group discussion for Tops only (Switches may attend but only speak from their experience as Tops) we will examine our own.
What’s Leather Got to Do With It? Leather Fetish, Sex and Soul (lecture/discussion format class with spoken word)
The world of BDSM often speaks of Leather as an identity, or as shorthand for our passions, but what about the leather itself? The hides of animals, our second skins, this material that once lived and breathed has inspired erotic explorers for generations… why? From tools of pain and pleasure to the wide varieties of clothing that wrap around our form and conform to our shape with time- we will examine our tough exteriors to find how leather fetish has inspired leather sex, and in turn, leather soul, identity and spirit… and the term “Leather Community” itself. Bring at least one piece of leather with you- be it a piece of your earned leathers if you come from that tradition, your favorite flogger, a tight pair of gloves, your favorite boots, your old friend of a belt, or something else to inspire yourself or others as part of this conversation towards understanding leather as more than a raw material.
Turning the Page: Initiations and Transformations (lecture/discussion format class)
From coming of age ceremonies to rituals to mark the end of a given period in our life, American culture is grossly lacking in key rituals of initiation and transformation that classical cultures possessed. This lack of initiation has directly effected how individuals in the BDSM, Leather, Fetish and Kink communities have come to view their own transformations as individuals of erotic identity. Let’s take a look at what transformative experiences have shaped our evolution as sexual human beings, the varieties of initiations that culture at large uses (as acknowledgement of status, to ordeals, to imbuement of gnosis), and how the self-initiation, self-dedication, and acts of community of peer acknowledgement from others in our own paths towards passionate selfhood have effected us in our own journey towards our own unique erotic identity.

