This forum post is where you should introduce yourself. Give everyone a little idea about who you are, what your background is, and even what got you into the bdsm liftestyle to begin with.
Submitted by Wendylady on March 15, 2005 - 2:17am.
Hi fellow kinky people :) I'm a Maui girl. I was born in Hali'imaile and grew up mostly upcountry. My main hobbie/stress relief (besides sex :P) is dancing. Also spending time with family and friends and walking my dogs are my other faves. I didn't really "get into" bdsm, it's more like it was always a part of me. But, I have had a lot of help from friends like Devin and Missdark in the last couple of years finding and accepting myself within that. Thanks guys! I'm interested in exploring more with people I feel the right connection with, and making friends all around :)
Submitted by Missdark on September 16, 2006 - 11:03pm.
Due to this being the internet and all, it might be in your best interest to send your phone number to people in a private message rather than posting your number to a board.
Hi. Im 19and a bi guy. Ive grown up between the island and santa maria ca, though everyone I know and work with considers me an Island Boy. Im just striving to learn about BDSM, as Ive only done a handfull of fun activities, and read about all kinds of ways to pass time and appease my desires that Ive yet to have the opprotunity to try. Ive had more experiences with a friend of mine from scouts and on my own then anything else, and hope to change those stats soon. As a reliable source puts it, I love to be controlled and I love feeling feminine. She really hit the nail on the head there. I race mountain bikes, fly around in a helicopter and scrape drunks off the highway, and even fight the occasional fire when Im not taking care of my ever persistant psycosexual (now theres a ten dollah word) desires. Thats almost the tip of my iceberg. Mahalo
Submitted by succubus27 on July 12, 2005 - 12:34pm.
Hello A/all;
I've actually been a member through yahoo for quite some time, and have only recently gotten back online. I notice that while I am recieving group messages, i can no longer find the old group, or reply or post messages of my own. It looks like the group has grown, and I was pleasantly surprised to see mention of planned play parties.
We are a couple, not traditionally D/s, but certainly along the modes of mind sex and control play. He is straight and dominant, she is somewhat bi and switch. Feel free to drop us a line or an IM, to get to know us better. Nice to be back around, and hope all are doing well.
Succubus
Submitted by oakrising on October 29, 2005 - 8:09am.
Hi, I'm pretty new to Maui, though I lived on Oahu for a few years. Never really had a lot of BDSM expieriences, though I'm extremely interested in it. I've never been very good at meeting people, so maybe that's a reason. I love outdoor activities like hiking, biking, and snorkeling - and indoor activities like horror movies and reading (and sex of course).
Submitted by Wendylady on November 10, 2005 - 12:08am.
The munches are a great place to connect with people and ask questions without being judged. Makes new friends, or just sit and listen. I haven't been around for ahile, but hope to be at the next munch. You should go if you can :)
Submitted by HeksenKoningen on November 29, 2006 - 3:39pm.
That's a lifelong question. But I'll tell you what I know so far....
I've lived on Maui for 8 years. I was going to move back to Canada this summer, but met my boyfriend and decided to stay. Before my boyfriend (who is basically my first anything) I wasn't sure what I was--had fantasies and whatnot, but thought that was as far as it went. Yeah, until he spanked me the first time. Then I was like, oh...so I am into bdsm. We're steadily expanding in the area, if you will, discovering what we like and don't as time goes on. Definitely softcore, though.
In other areas, I'm a Witch/Goddess-worshipper, First Degree Reiki Practicioner (just got my table--yay!), iconoclast, rebel, conformist, brutal, gentle, compassionate, tactless, beautiful, and hungry. ....I think I'm going to go eat.
Anyway, if you want to know more, just ask. I'll probably be at December's Munch.
Submitted by John96768 on December 30, 2006 - 9:07am.
Just your average older male, exploring and renewing my dark side, indulging in things that move me deeply.
I love the BDSM world, and the people I have met. Mostly on the mainland. I have lived on Maui for decades, quietly.
Look forward to meeting everyone at the next munch.
Aloha
Submitted by MistressMelody on March 27, 2007 - 3:04pm.
Hello everyone!
I'm so happy to have found you.
I am a sensualist Dominant to all, but switch to submissive for a few. I customize and girlie-fy all my tools of torture -- I adore texture.
Sensuality is my essence. I am an artist and the body is my canvas. BDSM, for me, will never be without it -- I would be untrue to myself to not include it.
Extremely creative and energetic, I am into erotic torture, bondage, pain and forced feminization (for all you lucky males). Also, I'm quite a Bitch in psych torture games. Humiliation -- bring it.
I am partnered with a Male Dominant. I am bi, so I love to play with female subs. He is hetero, thoroughly dominating & adoring females. We also delight in Co-Topping, which we do quite often, as another set of hands adds to the pleasure and pain symphony. We are very active (have even taught classes/done demos) for BDSM groups. (Mainland - Dallas,TX)
We're coming to visit, March 30 - April 6. We'd love to make your acquaintance.
The best way for us to find what we are searching for in others, is to be that ourselves. ~Mistress Melody
Submitted by willow_works on April 16, 2007 - 10:56am.
my family and i moved to Maui just over a year ago. my husband and i have been together for close to 18 years and married for almost 16 of those years. in the begining we played with cuffs and blindfolds some. as time went on we found that the occational hair pulling and spanking was also part of us. then we had a weekend away and had an opportunity to experience some bondage play... that was an amazing experience. we have seen movies that delved into BDSM some and seen some photos that cause reactions, then i heard of a book called, Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns. He purchased it for our tenth anniversary. We spent a weekend away from the world and offically pledged ourselves as Master/slave. We have added bits of submission to our daily lives, some noticable to others, some more private. we have had several experiences with other women added to our sex lives, all were friends first - partners second and most are still friends. He is all about pleasing the woman, whether it is his wife or the "other woman". it is not something we do lightly, nor will it ever be. we are safe and clean and plan to stay that way. we have no experience meeting with others of like-mind. if and when we show up to the Munch, it will be our first ever. i am pleased to have found this site and hope that there will be opportunity to meet and share discussion with others. thank you for having this available.
Submitted by willow_works on January 22, 2008 - 3:34am.
It took my husband and I quite a while to get the courage up to make a munch and were only able to do that after first meeting a member to give us a link so to speak (thank you Toymaker). We have made two munches and one planning meeting for building a "leather family". Our first munch was small and quiet, then we made the planning meeting and met many new faces and learned more about being a part of a "family", and by the time we made our next munch we knew more faces and had a higher comfort level. We are both glad to be getting to know so many new people and to have them understand what we are to one another makes it that much better.
I want to thank all those that we have met and make sure you truly know how much it means to me to feel such acceptance. It is comforting and warms me from the inside out to have this opportunity to be a part of this "family".
Submitted by Brannewbie on January 27, 2008 - 2:54pm.
I just recently moved to maui and was so excited to find a site like this. I am submissive. I have never had the oppurtunity to experience real time play but am hopefull that time will come soon. I am looking for like minded friends in the area and possibly a mistress. I have many interests and am curious about most things in the lifestyle. If you have any questions feel free to ask.
Submitted by tannedbottom on February 10, 2008 - 3:53pm.
Aloha Maui
I am a White Male soon to be 50 ,I am a Disciplined Husband" F/M." My wife and I have friends on the Big Island, Honolulu and the Mainland that we use from time to time when I need to be de-stressed or the wife feels I need a Good Punishment Spanking for Attitude , Disrespect and not doing my chores as agreed! I would like to meet Like minded Couples or Dominate Women for non sexual friendship in Hawaii for Topping as needed.
I have been F/M Minded since I can remember Past Girl Friends and most all Women I have Known I have felt a submissive too any way I look forward to hearing from other members
tanned
Submitted by Mss Lisabeth on February 22, 2008 - 5:20pm.
Pleased to introduce myself...
My approach to bdsm is feminist; I am inspired by people like Pat Califia and Carol Queen. I came here a few years ago from Minneapolis, where I was very active in the pansexual, gay, and lesbian leather communities there. I live in Honolulu and attend graduate school, where I conduct research on sex, sexuality, and gender as part of the Pacific Center for Sex and Society. I have just started developing a friendship with someone on Maui, so I thought I'd like to know more of you. Feel free to write me.
Submitted by molokaigirl on April 23, 2008 - 8:58pm.
I have never been accepted into a BDSM Commuity before last year at Thunder in the Rockies. An awesome event, it captured my full attention and interested me beyond my wildest dreams. These functions are very important and I would like to know what I can do to facilitate them. Please contact me at he email address I am writing from.l;;
Submitted by Master Sardukar on April 25, 2008 - 6:49pm.
It's about time
For those who don't know me, a little insight. I was one of the founding members of the original group-BDSM Maui, along with JJ, robyn et al. I've been with this group for over two years, attended the first munches with my bi-female slave. She has now returned to the Big Island, so I'm looking for one or more replacements. I've been involved in BDSM all my adult life and I'm very good at what I do, which among other things, is to train female slaves. I've just started up my own website, but rather than be redundant, those of you who are interested can check my profile on Alt.com(main profile is 69satyr69) and Collarme.com among others. I'm on all sites as Sardukar69. At the moment, due to reconstruction of our website, the only information posted about me is that I am a straight, male dominant who lives upcountry. What it doesn't say is that I have my own dungeon cleverly disguised as a gym(or is that a gym that doubles as a dungeon?)with all the toys and equipment for training and play. I have two posts in the Personal section under Female Slaves, which include my e-mail addy: Sardukar69@yahoo.com. I also make a lot of my own equipment and would be happy to share some of my ideas about where you can find items locally for use in BDSM play without spending a fortune at most of the "Toy" sites. I've also written some stories that I would also be willing to share. I firmly believe in the creed of BDSM-Safe, Sane and Consensual.
Aloha...New to the island but not to the lifestyle. Been here since November and had decided that there was no local action. So glad to find this group. Currently looking for submissive slutty playmates, with possiblilty of ltr. Looking forward to hitting the munches and meeting everyone. Sir Thor
Submitted by Maui Tears on August 6, 2008 - 9:37am.
Aloha,
I am a 48 yr old Bi Female, Living in central Maui. I am into self injections , among other things. I would love to chat with other Woman into the same.
This is a great sight, keep up the great work ! Maui Tears@aol.com
Submitted by redqueen17 on August 14, 2008 - 10:48am.
aloha A/all,
i'm anna. just another whiplash girlchild in the dark... or, in other words, 26 and new to the lifestyle and maui. ;) i have a sub who doubles as a boyfriend and he makes me quite happy. we keep meaning to check out the community but haven't even really settled down enough to do so. i'm on collarme and myspace and all sorts of other supposedly social networking sites. there is plenty of silly details about me on those if any1 cares to know more (just ask). the things those sites don't mention explicitly are perhaps how i got into bdsm- which would be my strong personality- best label i can come up w/ is "contradictory". some of my influences were wonderwoman, edgar allen poe, david bowie... hope that gives you an idea, the theme should probably be, "strange". *grins* hope to meet Y/y'all soon at the next munch or whatnot. totally bummed that i missed the beach bbq!
aloha
Hi fellow kinky people :) I'm a Maui girl. I was born in Hali'imaile and grew up mostly upcountry. My main hobbie/stress relief (besides sex :P) is dancing. Also spending time with family and friends and walking my dogs are my other faves. I didn't really "get into" bdsm, it's more like it was always a part of me. But, I have had a lot of help from friends like Devin and Missdark in the last couple of years finding and accepting myself within that. Thanks guys! I'm interested in exploring more with people I feel the right connection with, and making friends all around :)
Thank you for posting Wendyla
Thank you for posting Wendylady. Let's keep this rolling people! Share share! It's all about communication you know.
hi
jimmyz csll me anytime 264-4830
Just a tip
Due to this being the internet and all, it might be in your best interest to send your phone number to people in a private message rather than posting your number to a board.
Hi. Im 19and a bi guy. Ive gr
Hi. Im 19and a bi guy. Ive grown up between the island and santa maria ca, though everyone I know and work with considers me an Island Boy. Im just striving to learn about BDSM, as Ive only done a handfull of fun activities, and read about all kinds of ways to pass time and appease my desires that Ive yet to have the opprotunity to try. Ive had more experiences with a friend of mine from scouts and on my own then anything else, and hope to change those stats soon. As a reliable source puts it, I love to be controlled and I love feeling feminine. She really hit the nail on the head there. I race mountain bikes, fly around in a helicopter and scrape drunks off the highway, and even fight the occasional fire when Im not taking care of my ever persistant psycosexual (now theres a ten dollah word) desires. Thats almost the tip of my iceberg. Mahalo
Thank you for posting darksid
Thank you for posting darkside. Welcome to the group.
aloha
hey i read your intro before anf got a good vibe. just wanted to say hello. maybe we'll meet at a munch sometime. :)
returning
Hello A/all;
I've actually been a member through yahoo for quite some time, and have only recently gotten back online. I notice that while I am recieving group messages, i can no longer find the old group, or reply or post messages of my own. It looks like the group has grown, and I was pleasantly surprised to see mention of planned play parties.
We are a couple, not traditionally D/s, but certainly along the modes of mind sex and control play. He is straight and dominant, she is somewhat bi and switch. Feel free to drop us a line or an IM, to get to know us better. Nice to be back around, and hope all are doing well.
Succubus
Hello
Hi, I'm pretty new to Maui, though I lived on Oahu for a few years. Never really had a lot of BDSM expieriences, though I'm extremely interested in it. I've never been very good at meeting people, so maybe that's a reason. I love outdoor activities like hiking, biking, and snorkeling - and indoor activities like horror movies and reading (and sex of course).
aloha
The munches are a great place to connect with people and ask questions without being judged. Makes new friends, or just sit and listen. I haven't been around for ahile, but hope to be at the next munch. You should go if you can :)
No idea who I am....
That's a lifelong question. But I'll tell you what I know so far....
I've lived on Maui for 8 years. I was going to move back to Canada this summer, but met my boyfriend and decided to stay. Before my boyfriend (who is basically my first anything) I wasn't sure what I was--had fantasies and whatnot, but thought that was as far as it went. Yeah, until he spanked me the first time. Then I was like, oh...so I am into bdsm. We're steadily expanding in the area, if you will, discovering what we like and don't as time goes on. Definitely softcore, though.
In other areas, I'm a Witch/Goddess-worshipper, First Degree Reiki Practicioner (just got my table--yay!), iconoclast, rebel, conformist, brutal, gentle, compassionate, tactless, beautiful, and hungry. ....I think I'm going to go eat.
Anyway, if you want to know more, just ask. I'll probably be at December's Munch.
--HK/Jana
Aloha
Just your average older male, exploring and renewing my dark side, indulging in things that move me deeply.
I love the BDSM world, and the people I have met. Mostly on the mainland. I have lived on Maui for decades, quietly.
Look forward to meeting everyone at the next munch.
Aloha
to switch or not to switch
Hello everyone!
I'm so happy to have found you.
I am a sensualist Dominant to all, but switch to submissive for a few. I customize and girlie-fy all my tools of torture -- I adore texture.
Sensuality is my essence. I am an artist and the body is my canvas. BDSM, for me, will never be without it -- I would be untrue to myself to not include it.
Extremely creative and energetic, I am into erotic torture, bondage, pain and forced feminization (for all you lucky males). Also, I'm quite a Bitch in psych torture games. Humiliation -- bring it.
I am partnered with a Male Dominant. I am bi, so I love to play with female subs. He is hetero, thoroughly dominating & adoring females. We also delight in Co-Topping, which we do quite often, as another set of hands adds to the pleasure and pain symphony. We are very active (have even taught classes/done demos) for BDSM groups. (Mainland - Dallas,TX)
We're coming to visit, March 30 - April 6. We'd love to make your acquaintance.
The best way for us to find what we are searching for in others, is to be that ourselves. ~Mistress Melody
the who that i am and finding me
my family and i moved to Maui just over a year ago. my husband and i have been together for close to 18 years and married for almost 16 of those years. in the begining we played with cuffs and blindfolds some. as time went on we found that the occational hair pulling and spanking was also part of us. then we had a weekend away and had an opportunity to experience some bondage play... that was an amazing experience. we have seen movies that delved into BDSM some and seen some photos that cause reactions, then i heard of a book called, Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns. He purchased it for our tenth anniversary. We spent a weekend away from the world and offically pledged ourselves as Master/slave. We have added bits of submission to our daily lives, some noticable to others, some more private. we have had several experiences with other women added to our sex lives, all were friends first - partners second and most are still friends. He is all about pleasing the woman, whether it is his wife or the "other woman". it is not something we do lightly, nor will it ever be. we are safe and clean and plan to stay that way. we have no experience meeting with others of like-mind. if and when we show up to the Munch, it will be our first ever. i am pleased to have found this site and hope that there will be opportunity to meet and share discussion with others. thank you for having this available.
the more since first finding this site
It took my husband and I quite a while to get the courage up to make a munch and were only able to do that after first meeting a member to give us a link so to speak (thank you Toymaker). We have made two munches and one planning meeting for building a "leather family". Our first munch was small and quiet, then we made the planning meeting and met many new faces and learned more about being a part of a "family", and by the time we made our next munch we knew more faces and had a higher comfort level. We are both glad to be getting to know so many new people and to have them understand what we are to one another makes it that much better.
I want to thank all those that we have met and make sure you truly know how much it means to me to feel such acceptance. It is comforting and warms me from the inside out to have this opportunity to be a part of this "family".
New around here
I just recently moved to maui and was so excited to find a site like this. I am submissive. I have never had the oppurtunity to experience real time play but am hopefull that time will come soon. I am looking for like minded friends in the area and possibly a mistress. I have many interests and am curious about most things in the lifestyle. If you have any questions feel free to ask.
thanks
brannewbie
Aloha Maui I am a White Male
Aloha Maui
I am a White Male soon to be 50 ,I am a Disciplined Husband" F/M." My wife and I have friends on the Big Island, Honolulu and the Mainland that we use from time to time when I need to be de-stressed or the wife feels I need a Good Punishment Spanking for Attitude , Disrespect and not doing my chores as agreed! I would like to meet Like minded Couples or Dominate Women for non sexual friendship in Hawaii for Topping as needed.
I have been F/M Minded since I can remember Past Girl Friends and most all Women I have Known I have felt a submissive too any way I look forward to hearing from other members
tanned
Pleased to introduce
Pleased to introduce myself...
My approach to bdsm is feminist; I am inspired by people like Pat Califia and Carol Queen. I came here a few years ago from Minneapolis, where I was very active in the pansexual, gay, and lesbian leather communities there. I live in Honolulu and attend graduate school, where I conduct research on sex, sexuality, and gender as part of the Pacific Center for Sex and Society. I have just started developing a friendship with someone on Maui, so I thought I'd like to know more of you. Feel free to write me.
M. Lisabeth
I have never been accepted
I have never been accepted into a BDSM Commuity before last year at Thunder in the Rockies. An awesome event, it captured my full attention and interested me beyond my wildest dreams. These functions are very important and I would like to know what I can do to facilitate them. Please contact me at he email address I am writing from.l;;
Akakua
It's about time
It's about time
For those who don't know me, a little insight. I was one of the founding members of the original group-BDSM Maui, along with JJ, robyn et al. I've been with this group for over two years, attended the first munches with my bi-female slave. She has now returned to the Big Island, so I'm looking for one or more replacements. I've been involved in BDSM all my adult life and I'm very good at what I do, which among other things, is to train female slaves. I've just started up my own website, but rather than be redundant, those of you who are interested can check my profile on Alt.com(main profile is 69satyr69) and Collarme.com among others. I'm on all sites as Sardukar69. At the moment, due to reconstruction of our website, the only information posted about me is that I am a straight, male dominant who lives upcountry. What it doesn't say is that I have my own dungeon cleverly disguised as a gym(or is that a gym that doubles as a dungeon?)with all the toys and equipment for training and play. I have two posts in the Personal section under Female Slaves, which include my e-mail addy: Sardukar69@yahoo.com. I also make a lot of my own equipment and would be happy to share some of my ideas about where you can find items locally for use in BDSM play without spending a fortune at most of the "Toy" sites. I've also written some stories that I would also be willing to share. I firmly believe in the creed of BDSM-Safe, Sane and Consensual.
Aloha...New to the island but
Aloha...New to the island but not to the lifestyle. Been here since November and had decided that there was no local action. So glad to find this group. Currently looking for submissive slutty playmates, with possiblilty of ltr. Looking forward to hitting the munches and meeting everyone. Sir Thor
I just got back from the UK I
I just got back from the UK I had the greatest time with a london escort who was so into bdsm what a crazy time i had there.
Aloha, I am a 48 yr old Bi
Aloha,
I am a 48 yr old Bi Female, Living in central Maui. I am into self injections , among other things. I would love to chat with other Woman into the same.
This is a great sight, keep up the great work ! Maui Tears@aol.com
aloha A/all, i'm anna. just
aloha A/all,
i'm anna. just another whiplash girlchild in the dark... or, in other words, 26 and new to the lifestyle and maui. ;) i have a sub who doubles as a boyfriend and he makes me quite happy. we keep meaning to check out the community but haven't even really settled down enough to do so. i'm on collarme and myspace and all sorts of other supposedly social networking sites. there is plenty of silly details about me on those if any1 cares to know more (just ask). the things those sites don't mention explicitly are perhaps how i got into bdsm- which would be my strong personality- best label i can come up w/ is "contradictory". some of my influences were wonderwoman, edgar allen poe, david bowie... hope that gives you an idea, the theme should probably be, "strange". *grins* hope to meet Y/y'all soon at the next munch or whatnot. totally bummed that i missed the beach bbq!